"I get so stressed out from school and just dealing with family problems. Sometimes drugs help me deal. Is it really bad to use drugs to get by every once and a while?"

I try to stay away from words like good or bad. Rather, let’s look at what’s healthy for you and likely to help you with these unpleasant feelings. Look, my intent is not to "bum your high" or something. If doing drugs would help you with your feelings why would I get in the way of that?

The reality is that drugs of abuse and addiction are never helpful or healthy. The impact of virtually every drug of abuse will ultimately adversely impact how you are feeling. I cannot deny that in the short run drugs make you feel good, but there is a consequence on the other side.

Drugs of abuse impact your brain in such a way that after you come down you feel worse, often a lot worse. This is many times how people end up doing more and more.

If you are having stress at school or family problems there are people who can help with these issues, people that can help you find relief and help you deal productively with these issues. Tell a trusted adult family member or someone at school about how you are feeling and ask for help.

You can find help for yourself or a friend in the Help / Resources section.