It sounds like many of you can relate to what Jen's been through - dealing with pressure, making new
friends and wanting to fit in, but being "true to yourself" too.
Tell us more about how you deal with the pressure at parties or from friends.
Sarah S says…
I can relate to the fact that Jen did not try to fit in, no matter what, she was true to herself.
I am never afraid to be me, and I think it's wrong for people who look down on others, like they sometimes
do me and my friends. I think Jen's story is sad and inspirational at the same time. I am
amazed that she has such a positive outlook on life after everything she had been through as a kid,
teen, and adult.
Elaine says…
Making friends in a new place or when you dont know anyone is really hard, like Jen said. Many people
just dont want to be alone so they will do anything to be "in." Sometimes that can get you
into trouble. I definitely think peer pressure exists in my school. So many people want to be cool,
or want to not care about things and just have fun that they let pressures get to them. Other kids dont
want to be alone in what they are doing so they pressure other kids into doing things so they dont feel
as bad themselves.
Tiffany says…
I can relate the idea of social groups, peer pressure, and a rough time at home. I totally agree with
everything she said. Peer pressure DOES exist, some just chose not to notice so they don’t have
to make a tough choice. There is peer pressure in looks, where you sit, who you hang out with, where
your locker is, what classes your taking, what you dress like, how sexually active you are, and yes
drugs and alcohol. I mean all of these things are made stressful and are influenced by peer pressure,
in my high school and others. There isnt much anyone can do to stop it except talking to people one
on one and trying to make them see peer pressure isnt cool. In reality, there will ALWAYS be peer pressure
and that is why we need to understand what it is and how to deal with it.